| No. |
Conflict Avoidance |
Healthy Peace |
1 |
Silence that protects neither person's real experience |
Silence that comes after something real has been said |
| 2 |
Agreement that is strategic not genuine |
Agreement that reflects genuine alignment |
| 3 |
Issues that never get resolved because they never get named |
Issues addressed while they are still small enough to hear |
| 4 |
Peace that is actually suppression with better lighting |
Calm that exists because the hard things were handled |
| 5 |
Resentment accumulating underneath the surface calm |
Warmth that is sustainable because it is honest |
