| No. |
Aspect |
Offense |
Wound |
1 |
Basic Meaning |
A hurtful act, word, or event |
The inner pain caused by hurt |
| 2 |
Nature |
External |
Internal |
| 3 |
What it refers to |
What someone did |
What someone feels or carries |
| 4 |
Cause |
Insult, rejection, betrayal, wrongdoing |
Offense, trauma, loss, neglect, pain |
| 5 |
Duration |
Can happen in a moment |
May last for a long time |
| 6 |
Visibility |
Often visible or observable |
Often hidden inside the heart |
| 7 |
Focus |
The action |
The effect |
| 8 |
Example |
Someone mocks you |
Feeling ashamed or broken afterward |
| 9 |
Emotional result |
May trigger anger or disappointment |
May lead to deep sorrow, fear, bitterness or insecurity |
| 10 |
Healing needed |
Forgiveness, correction, reconciliation |
Healing, comfort, restoration |
| 11 |
Biblical emphasis |
"Taking offense", stumbling |
"Healing the brokenhearted", binding wounds |
| 12 |
Simple summary |
The hurt done |
The pain retained |