| No. |
Controlling |
Caring |
1 |
Telling someone what they "need to do" or "should do" |
Respects individuality |
| 2 |
Speaking as your way is the only way to do something right |
Understands there are more than one way to do things |
| 3 |
Trying to manipulate someone to think and act like you |
Support someone's autonomy |
| 4 |
Thinking you know what is best for someone |
Aware and respect different perspectives |
| 5 |
Giving unsolicited advice about someone's life |
Offer support and guidance when asked or needed |
