| No. |
Things you are responsible for |
Things you are not responsible for |
1 |
Your own thoughts |
Other people's thoughts |
| 2 |
Your own feelings |
Other people's feelings |
| 3 |
Your own intentions |
Other people's intentions |
| 4 |
Communicating your needs |
Guessing other people's needs |
| 5 |
Respecting other people's unavailability to meet all your needs |
Meeting all of their needs |
| 6 |
Building a healthy relationship with yourself |
Other people's opinions about you |
| 7 |
Healing from your past |
Making other people happy |
| 8 |
Forgiving yourself |
Fixing other people's problems |
| 9 |
Setting your own boundaries |
Reading other people's minds |
| 10 |
Respecting other people's boundaries |
Setting other people's boundaries for them |
| 11 |
Pursuing your dreams - even if no one understands them |
Understanding other people's dreams |
| 12 |
All of your choices |
Any of their choices |
