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139. Stress And Burnout
138. Transactional And Transformational Leadership
137. Sadness And Depression
136. Love And Dependency
135. Happiness And Joy
134. Relationships: Healthy, Unhealthy and Abusive
133. Knowledge And Questions
132. Grace without Truth And Truth without Grace
131. Grief And Trauma
130. Toxic Positivity And Positivity
129. The Realm of Doing And The Realm of Being
128. Friendship And Love
127. Ego And Self-Esteem
126. Good Friends And Bad Friends
125. Authority And Responsibility
124. Healthy Anger And Rage
123. Omnivert And Ambivert
122. Introverts And Extroverts
121. Easy And Difficult
120. Salvation And Discipleship
119. Culture of Violence and Culture of Peace
118. Healthy And Unhealthy Church
117. Consequences And Punishment
116. Genuine People And Fake People
115. Kind People And Nice People
114. Self-will And Gods Will
113. The World And Christians
112. False Humility And True Humility
111. Leadership And Management
110. Leadership Styles: Autocratic, Democratic And Laissez-faire
109. Before Jesus And After Jesus
108. Authentic Kindness And People Pleasing
107. Reasonable Mind, Wise Mind And Emotional Mind
106. Evolutionist / Secular Humanist View And Christian View
105. Ego And True Self
104. Victim Mindset And Healing Mindset
103. Awakened Man And Awakened Woman
102. Re-parenting Self And Re-traumatizing Self
101. Worldy Dads And Godly Dads
100. Christian View And Secular View
99. Confident Entrepreneur And Arrogant Entrepreneur
98. Hard work And Smart work
97. Song Leader And Worship Leader
96. Healing Mindset And Fixed Mindset
95. Inner Wisdom And Ego
94. Aggressive And Assertive
93. Vulnerability And Fauxnerability
92. Emotionally Stunted And Emotionally Mature
91. Healthy Relationships And Trauma Relationships
90. Reaction And Response
89. Lack Mindset And Abundance Mindset
88. Ego And Confidence
87. Self Accountability And Self Betrayal
86. Inner Critic And Inner Coach
85. Successful People And Unsuccessful People
84. Voice of Fear And Voice of Love
83. Intuition And Fear
82. Wisdom of Satan And Wisdom of God
81. Confidence And Arrogance
80. Goals And Dreams
79. Arrogance And Humility
78. Successful Leaders And Effective Leaders
77. Proud People And Humble People
76. Godly Repentance And Worldly Repentance
75. Godly Love And Worldly Love
74. False Wisdom And True Wisdom
73. Positional Power And Personal Power
72. Self-centered Religiosity And God-centered Humility
71. Contract And Covenant
70. Power And Influence
69. High Self-esteem And Low Self-esteem
68. Voice Of God And Voice Of Satan
67. Peace Of The World And Peace Of God
66. Godly Sorrow And Worldly Sorrow
65. What Fear Does And What Love Does
64. Positive Thinking And Negative Thinking
63. Stress And Anxiety
62. Motive And Intention
61. Grief And Depression
60. Shame And Guilt
59. Seek And Dont Seek
58. Woundmate And Heartmate
57. Attitude And Ego
56. Dictatorship And Democracy
55. God's Economy And Man's Economy
54. Honesty And Integrity
53. Driven-Doing Mode And Being Mode
52. Smart And Wise
51. Faithful And Loyal
50. Governance And Leadership Response
49. Law And Ethics
48. The You And The Ego
47. Pleasure And Happiness
46. Ownership And Stewardship
45. Discipline And Punishment
44. Law of Sin & Death And Law of the Spirit
43. Responsibility And Accountability
42. Ego And Soul
41. Subconscious Mind And Physical Mind
40. Intuition And Ego
39. Religion And Spirituality
38. Fixed Mindset And Growth Mindset
37. Accountable Teammates And Unaccountable Teammates
36. Culture of Blame And Culture of Accountability
35. True Love And Fake Love
34. Unhealthy Love And Healthy Love
33. Feelings And Emotions
32. Anxiety And Depression
31. A Boss And A Leader
30. Trauma Bonding And Authentic Bonding
29. Ego Love And Authentic Love
28. Narcissism And Self-Love
27. Things That Drain Your Energy And Raise Your Energy
26. Confident And Arrogant
25. Mother And Father
24. Busy Leaders And Productive Leaders
23. Busy People And Productive People
22. Critical Thinking And Creative Thinking
21. The Old Covenant And The New Covenant
20. Meddling And Helping
19. Pride And Humility
18. Critical Spirit And Caring Spirit
17. Emotional Immaturity And Emotional Maturity
16. Religion And Gospel
15. Intelligence And Wisdom
14. Teacher And Guru
13. Spiritual Gifts And Talents
12. Spiritual Gifts And Fruit Of The Spirit
11. Love And Lust
10. Live Churches And Dead Churches
9. Unbroken And Broken People
8. Children Learn What They Live
7. Man And God
6. Self-Centered Life And Self-Centered Deeds
5. Man's Way And God's Way
4. Men And Women
3. Winner And Loser
2. Competitors And Innovators
1. Manager And Leader

Healthy Church And Unhealthy Church

No. In a healthy church In an unhealthy church
1 Genorisity and giving to ministries/charities are taught as principles.
Opportunities for giving to the church are presented, but ultimately it is the church-goers decision if and how much to give.
[2 Corinthians 9:5-15]
Giving to the church is coerced.
You are guilt-tripped and threatened into it. Finances may be monitored; you could be shamed or penalized for not giving "enough".
2 Attendance is encouraged.
If you miss, you are given the benefit of the doubt. If it's a prolonged absence, you may be checked on out of kindness.
[Hebrews 10:23-25]
Attendance is mandatory.
If you miss, you are viewed with suspicion and may be privately scolded or publicly humiliated.
3 Scripture is carefully studied and taught.
The goal is to align church beliefs and behavior to God's word.
[2 Timothy 2:15]
Scripture is weaponized.
It is used as a tool to justify and enforce church beliefs and behavior.
4 When members move to another church or church group, they are still considered brothers and sisters in Christ and fellowshipped with love and respect.
[Ephesians 4:1-6]
There is no legitimate reason to leave the church group. Those who do are labeled as compromisers, rebels, etc. Relationships are often strained or ended.
5 Pastors and elders are servant-leaders, humble shepherds who care for the flock. They are viewed as equals, but respected and followed as they follow Christ.
[1 Peter 5:1-5]
Pastors and elders are 'lords' who rule over their churches with high-handed control. They are viewed as above everyone else.
6 Essential and first-tier doctrines are divided over in love and respect, lesser differences are expected and gladly fellowshiped for the sake of the gospel.
[Romans 14:1-13]
Differences, even on secondary and tertiary, doctrines, are viewed as dangerous and divided over. Conformity to the group is expected and pressured.
7 Questions are invited, open and honest discussions are intentionally cultivated. Leaders encourage the church to hold their teachings accountable to Scripture.
[Acts 17:11]
Questions are met with suspicion; those asking are often viewed as rebellious, backsliding, and causing division. Clarifying questions might be tolerated, but questions that challenge church teachings with scripture are shut down.
8 Churches from other groups, especially local churches, are viewed as partners to collaborate with in order to better serve the local community and share the gospel.
[I Corinthians 12:12-27]
Churches from other groups, especially local churches, are viewed as competitors. Visiting them is discouraged, partenership is unthinkable.