| No. |
Victim Mindset |
Healing Mindset |
| 1 |
Things happen beyond my control |
Things happen but I am in control of my emotional response |
| 2 |
Blames other people and circumstances for present results |
Works to understand role in current experience |
| 3 |
Often feels regret over the past |
All experience provides feedback for growth |
| 4 |
Looks to find others who validate their self made limitations |
Spends time alone. Observe thoughts and behaviours |
