| No. |
Men |
Women |
| 1 |
A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results |
A woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationship |
| 2 |
To feel better men go to their caves to solve problems alone |
To feel better women get together and openly talk about their problems |
| 3 |
A man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem |
A woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her problem |
| 4 |
Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed |
Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished |
| 5 |
Men are afraid of giving |
Women are afraid of receiving |
| 6 |
A man should not be fridged for needing to withdraw |
A woman should not be fridged for needing assurance |
| 7 |
Men pull back and then get close |
Women rise and fall in their ability to love themselves and others |
| 8 |
Men argue for the right to be free |
Women argue for the right to be upset |
| 9 |
Men want space |
Women want understanding |
| 10 |
If a women doesn't ask for support a man assumes he is giving enough |
A woman's motto is "Love is never having to ask" |
| 11 |
Men need to receive
1. Trust
2. Acceptance
3. Appreciation
4. Admiration
5. Approval
6. Encouragement
|
Women need to receive
1. Caring
2. Understanding
3. Respect
4. Devotion
5. Validation
6. Reassurance
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