| No. | Toxic Leaders Say | Kind Leaders Say | 
    1 | That's not my problem, figure it out. | How can I support you? | 
    | 2 | I don't care how, just do it. | Let's find the best way to do this. | 
    | 3 | Failure isn't an option. | What can we learn from this? | 
    | 4 | Why is it taking so long? | What obstacles are you facing? | 
    | 5 | Do as I say. | I'm happy to hear your feedback. | 
    | 6 | Everything must be perfect. | Let's try our best. | 
    | 7 | You're not doing enough. | Let's review our goals and how we can achieve them. | 
    | 8 | Don't ask questions, just do it. | Feel free to ask questions to clarify. | 
    | 9 | It's my way or the highway. | Let's discuss how we can meet both of our expectations. | 
    | 10 | This is how we've always done it. | I'm open to new ideas - what's your suggestion? |