| No. | Narcissism | Self-Love | 
    | 1 | Always needs others around | Enjoys time alone | 
    | 2 | Nothing is ever good enough | Happy and fulfilled | 
    | 3 | Always wants more | Grateful for what they have | 
    | 4 | Belittle and undervalue other's needs and feelings | Shows care and concern for others | 
    | 5 | Seeks external validation | Seeks internal validation | 
    | 6 | False sense of high self-esteem | Healthy self-esteem | 
    | 7 | Likes to control others | Free will of self and others | 
    | 8 | Deeply insecure | Self-assured |